The Traits of a Dog/Women WHAT ARE YOU CRYING ABOUT?!?!?!

So, in my life I’ve seen a lot of things and compared to other people I haven’t seen that much. Certain things upset me though because they are situations that can be avoided if the person in the situation pays attention to the signs. What signs you ask? The signs of a dog, that’s right a dog!

Too many times I’ve seen the angry diatribes from women talking about how the men they deal with aren’t shit and how there are no good men left. Then the most eloquent, “Niggas ain’t shit” complaint. Well I’m going to say something that’s going to blow your mind, you’re right! Niggas ain’t shit because “niggas” are not human. We could go into this debate FOREVER but anyway that word was meant to dehumanize and emasculate so when you say it the statement becomes rather obvious. I’m no expert on relationships or what goes on in people’s lives. I just tell it like it is from my point of view and what I have experienced.

In my life I have been with a girl, who cheated on me, and I’ve been with girls who have said mean things and I didn’t say all women were shit. Maybe it’s because I looked at myself and asked, “Did I deserve to be treated like that?” I found myself saying,”No.” So I felt compelled to find a woman who would treat me like I wanted to be treated. Yes, certain things I brought on myself because I have a foul mouth and a bad temper but that’s where owning your mistakes comes in. It’s so easy to blame the other party for what goes wrong in a relationship because it takes the pressure off of you. Real people can look at themselves and correct THEIR mistakes so that when the next potential companion comes along they won’t carry the same pain from the last one. Better yet, if they dealt with their own issues their eyes would be open to the possibility that their choices were wrong! Yes, it is possible to have a string of bad choices but that doesn’t mean every choice after that is not worthwhile.

This is why relationships are getting harder and harder to maintain. People point the finger at each other, respect drops and people expect you to live up to their expectations. Look at this, take a woman who’s been cheated on, or beat, or deceived. Now, from whatever she’s dealt with it caused her to lower her expectations of men. She now has the mindset that men are no good, or they are out for one thing. Yea, we know there are plenty of men only out to check off the number of women they slept with as their own personal quest, fuck them. You have to understand that there are also plenty of good men out there!

The thing is, when you have a negative attitude you push men away. How do you expect a good man to live up to your expectations when they’re so low? No matter what a good man does you’re always waiting for him to “be a man”. Then when the man gets frustrated or you push him to be with someone else, he’s not shit either. No one is right all the time. No one is always a victim. Accountability HAS to come in otherwise you’ll be sitting on the porch with a shotgun talking to your 80 cats to replace the one man you miss. I’m not going to talk about this one too long, just had to vent.

Anyway, to all those women who think men aren’t shit, PLEASE spare me, I’m a man and I AM a good one, so if I exist, then MANY more exist.

Am I right or wrong?

**FOR THE RECORD**

Women are not dumb or naive, they know when they have a good man and when they don't. EVERY good man gives off signs of that, and so does every bad one. Regardless of what he does, like, beating you, cheating on you, or neglecting you ladies you KNOW what kind of man you have after a certain point. Too many choose to ignore the signs and stay! So there is no excuse for those women, but the one's who legitimately didn't know then don't be discouraged!

**Fueled by passion, driven by pain before I die the world will know my name**
- JioVanni