Part II - A woman told me, "ALL THE GOOD MEN ARE GONE & IF THEY ARE AVAILABLE THEY DON’T WANT US!" I laughed in her face!

You know I had to write on it one more time! You can call this part two to the first note about women griping on how n*#%@! Ain’t shit.

I’m writing about it again because there is more to the problem than what I said in the last note. Some women blame all men for the problems they had with a FEW. In addition to that, they carry a mindset that not only leads to MORE dissent and anger, but also more pain for themselves.

Yes, now we’re on the topic of black men who date outside of their race. The root of this problem goes back to slavery when slave masters would get some of that black woman they hated so much. This made the white women who were the wives of the masters mad because in their wildest dreams they couldn’t imagine their man wanting something as ugly as that (the black woman). They even tried to justify the man’s cheating by saying the women must have used voodoo to get him to sleep with them. This shows how little sense they had.

If you were a slave and could use voodoo, WOULDN’T YOU USE IT TO KILL THE SLAVE MASTER SO YOU COULD BE FREE???
I would. Anyway...

So the white woman began to hate the black woman for what she possessed from the strength, to the large breasts and the hips and the booty (lol).

Hate only comes from envy.

Now let’s fast forward a few centuries. It’s 2009 and interracial relationships are bigger than they ever were. This is not only a black/white thing, it encompasses ALL races. No combination pisses off a black woman more than a black man and a white woman, you can lie all you want, but it’s the TRUTH!

For those of you that haven’t seen “Jungle Fever” with Wesley Snipes and Spike Lee as actor and Director. You should see it, it’s a good movie. The main plot is Wesley Snipes’ character is in a loving marriage with his black wife and he starts working with a white/Italian intern. They spend late nights talking and working until one night they get caught up and have sex with each other.

After this Wesley’s wife finds out and throws him out and then meets with her friends to talk about the problem. Spike Lee called it a “war consulate” which is what it was. They sat around bombing everything black man related and said they felt that there were no good men left. However, the wife who was cheated on said she doesn’t believe that, she felt that women were looking in the wrong places. She said women weren’t looking at the bus drivers, and the garbage men. WHY? Is that job not good enough? For the record garbage men make MONEY! Lol.

That scene brought up a good point. Where are you looking, and what type of attitude are you holding when you are looking?

I don’t care what anyone says, some black women are extremely by the fact that some black men date outside of the race. Have you ever heard the phrase, “self hate”? People say this because they think the man hates or has an aversion to dating in his race. So they assume he is purposely dating out of his race. This may be true, but have you considered why he is purposely dating out of his race?

Maybe his preference is an Asian, Hispanic, Brazilian, Indian, or White girl and not you. Is that so hard to handle? Why act like that is the only man in the world? The reason women get so mad at men like this is because they want them! If a woman doesn’t want a man she does not care what or who he’s doing and who he’s doing it with.

Race should NOT matter, but in this life it does. The LEVEL that it matters can be changed. Too often women keep the cycle going and get madder and madder but do nothing to change their actions.

No good men? Pick better ones! Tired of being treated like nothing? Act like you’re something! Tired of the “man” leaving you after he has sex with you? Stop giving it up! Tired of seeing black men with white women? Stop looking!

Handle your business and you’ll not only be happy but that tightening in your forehead will disappear!

Ok, I’m done with this topic, be on the lookout for the next!

**Fueled by passion, driven by pain before I die the world will know my name**
- JioVanni